(via fatgirlopinions)
Just for the record, girls (and really anyone else who does this, but in my personal experience it is usually girls that I’m friends with)
When you spend a lot of time comforting a friend about their insecurities by telling them things like “you’re not fat, you’re beautiful” but then turn around and immediately shit talk another girl for their fatness or their looks simply because you don’t like them, you completely invalidate everything you have said to that person with the insecurity. You can’t tell them that it doesn’t matter but then act like it does matter for someone else. Particularly when you are saying it negatively.
